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Talk Nerdy to me

Female (41) looking for Male Portland, Oregon, United States

Here's the thing. I'm not a typical "girl". I know everyone says that, but in my case, it's true. I'm told I'm the best friend you thought would be....well... a guy. That sounds weird. Let me elaborate.
I love eating food with my hands, going to sporting events, drinking beer rather than Wine. But prefer Whiskey over everything else.Keep the glass, I'll guzzle out of the bottle!
I love horror movies, driving fast and more than anything, I enjoy spending some one on one time with my console. However, thanks to a crippling Social Anxiety, I'm not really a "social player"
I'm not that great...no really. The bad guy will always find me, and I'll never stick my Tetris Pieces, exactly where you think they should've gone. I don't know the difference between camping, and sniping....I just know one involves tents. But I'll tell you what....I'm having a good time! No rage quitting, tossing over tables, or breaking controllers, and I'll bring your K/D average up...you're welcome! ! I don't just play games, I love watching them. I like watching the story unfold, mysteries get solved, Villains getting caught. The lore, the Meta, and the backgrounds intrigue me.
I'm expierianceing a real life divorce for the first time in my life. After 13 years of marriage. So I'm not looking to jump into another relationship. After that long with someone, I need to take some solo time, to figure out who I am now. However, I do get lonely, and could use some friends. For now.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildBBW/BHM
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusWork At Home

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesSports
Favorite TV showsI don't watch TV that often. But in the past.....X-files was my gateway into living the life of a nerd. Buffy, Supernatural, Doctor Who ( but mostly just for Ten) I watch YouTube more than anything.
Favorite movies typesHorror, Thriller
Favorite moviesAnything Horror. It, Nightmare On Elm Street (Aside from 2...we pretend that one doesn't exist) Hellraiser, Don't be afraid of the Dark, Insidious, The Conjuring, Turistas, Sinister
Music typesVacuum cleaner noises
Favorite artistsDepends on the day. There is always a group/singer/band that helps me get through whatever I'm going through. One of my favorite quotes is "When you're happy, you hear the music. When you're sad, you hear the words"
Reading selectionFiction, Horror, Science fiction
Favorite booksAmityville Horror, Shinning, I read YA Fiction ( don't judge) Comics, Manga, Instruction Manuals, Product Warranty, Billboards, Cereal Boxes, Text Messages, Menus, Terms and Conditions,
Idea of funTo be completely honest, I'm probably the most boring person in the world. I'm most happy in my bubble, playing on the computer or my play station. Hanging out with my kiddos, I draw. So,,..there's that
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Movies, Internet, Games, Computers

Personality

SmokerSmoke socially
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Nerd
Sense of humorClever
My great timeStaying at home, Drinking, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Playing video games

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Goal in lifeAt this point, to just get through it. Re-rolling, at this point!

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerTrust, first and foremost. I want someone who can make me smile, who genuinely cares. Someone who is fun, and knows how to have a good time, even if that's sitting at home in our pj's watching a football game, or going out to the grocery store to stock up on snacks! But they have to know how to be sincere, chill. If I'm having a bad day, they don't give me a bad time for it, they help me get through it. Basically, I don't think relationships can work if you aren't friends first. Yeah, they're your partner, but they should also be your best friend!
On the first dateI'm not great with first meets, I hate awkward silences, and tend to flop on small talk, so my ideal first date, would be doing something where talking to each other isn't involved too much. LIke a concert, or movie. Going on a long drive, to an unknown destination, listening to music and just chatting here and there, pretending we're life long friends, where there are no awkward silences....just breaks in between the talking.